The purpose of reflection is not to punish yourself, it’s about knowing yourself. The hard part about reflection is figuring out what to reflect on, and why you feel resistance. If you are looking to improve some aspect of your life – either personal or professional – you need to forget about secret sauces, magic pills, or formulas for success. If you really want address a limiter, you need only one thing…a fraction of self discipline.
Nice work on getting the new GIG! I know how hard it is to go through that process. I’ve done it a few times myself, and one thing I have learned is you really don’t want to waste all that effort and the joy of being selected by not having a plan to get up […]
The Experts Are Wrong: Hope is ABSOLUTELY a Strategy I got a phone call from a concerned colleague of mine who heard I was looking for a new gig recently. We spent some time catching up and sharing some stories about how things have changed everywhere, and how important it was to stay relevant. I asked him […]
The hard thing matters. Mostly because it’s the quickest way to get to a result. The problem is that there is a perceived threat of pain. Uncertainty of result. Expected failure. That’s the way it is with challenges. It’s a challenge because someone already said how hard it will be, or how hard it has […]
You gotta start somewhere! You don’t just wake up one day and realize you have achieved your goals overnight. You don’t just find yourself RELEVANT, or IN DEMAND. Improvement takes time…but over that time, you need to see progress, or you will LOSE momentum. You need to tinker and test and take notes. And make […]